The Book
Not Man Enough To Be A Woman, in and of itself, is nonsensical. It is something my father said to me the night I told my parents about my pending transition, after he concluded a discourse on the virtues of his sisters. The story behind the title is in Chapter 1.
This book is a love story and an apology to my family. It’s a father son story of love and hate, a 23-year estrangement and a deathbed reconciliation. It’s the story of my lifelong struggle with gender dysphoria and transition. It’s the story of repentance and coming to Christ which led to my detransition. It is my assessment and warning of the lies and secret intentions of the trans movement of today and it’s a call to action to protect our kids.
About Me
Salvation Over Transition
Finding My True Self
In 1993, after fighting an ever-growing desire since early childhood. Regret that ruined my marriage and brought me to the brink of suicide. Moreover, it resulted in estrangement from family, and I transitioned from male to female. ‘Passing’ well, I integrated into society as a woman and settled into a comfortable life and career for three decades. Only people who knew me before the transition and those who I chose to tell.
Believing that I had been a Christian most of my life, I heard the true biblical Gospel for the first time in the early 2020s. Those bible verses about spreading the Gospel repeat in my soul for very long. After much study and research, I realized I had never been a Christian, and I saw my lifestyle for what it was. Estranged from my family, I saw my sin for what it was, and I wanted no more of it. I put my faith in Jesus and began my new life in Christ.
I initiated a de-transition that took nearly three years. In order to overcome obstacles of time put in my way by those allied with the transgender movement. After surgery, I began living as a male again in October of 2023, right before transgender awareness month. My life is now about spreading the Gospel and speaking out about the trans agenda. Especially to parents of vulnerable children; that’s why this is one of the perfect books about transgender people.