Not Man Enough To
Be A Woman

Transgendered For 30 Years, No Lie Lives Forever

The title of this book might seem nonsensical at first glance. It was a phrase my father used the night I revealed my impending transition, following a lengthy discussion on the virtues of his sisters. The story behind the title is explored in Chapter 1.

This book serves as both a love letter and an apology to my family. It recounts a father-son saga marked by love and conflict, a 23-year estrangement, and a deathbed reconciliation. It details my lifelong struggle with gender dysphoria and transition, and it describes my journey of repentance and coming to Christ, which led to my detransition.

Furthermore, it offers a critical examination and cautionary perspective on the current trans movement while calling for action to safeguard our children.