
Salvation Over Transition
Finding My True Self
In 1993, after fighting an ever-growing compulsion since early childhood that ruined my marriage, brought me to the brink of suicide, and left me estranged from family, I transitioned to female. ‘Passing’ well, I blended into society, pretending to be a woman, and I settled into a comfortable life and career for decades. The only people who knew… were the people who knew me before the transition and those who I chose to tell.
I believed that I had been a Christian most of my life and that my lifestyle was somehow compatible with Christianity. After attending a new church in the late 20 teens, I heard the true biblical Gospel for the first time in my life and it wasn’t necessarily what I wanted to hear, but somehow that gave it more credibility. After much study, research and prayer, I realized I had never been a Christian afterall. I began to see my sin and my lifestyle in its true light. I saw myself for what I was, a wretched sinner in dire need of a savior, and I wanted no more of it. I cried out to God confessing my sins and asking forgiveness. I repented and put my faith in Jesus and began my new life in Christ. I experienced a dramatic change and a powerful transformation.
I wanted to glorify God and so I initiated a detransition that took nearly three years. I had to overcome obstacles put in my way by those allied with the transgender movement. I completed the major parts of my detransition in October of 2023 and began living as a male again. My life now is about spreading the Gospel and speaking out about the trans agenda, especially to parents of vulnerable children.